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#14214 From: "S. Markham" <shoshie1943@...>
Date: Thu Nov 19, 2009 10:10 pm
Subject: Not Forgotten not forgotten...
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Hi, all,
 
I finally got to watch my DVD of Not Forgotten and just want to make a few comments. It has been well critiqued and reviewed here, so I won't have much else to say. NF kept me moderately interested, but was it one of those WHBISWIT (Wouldn't have Bothered if Simon Weren't In It) movies? Definitely. Having said that, my main comment is that Simon's portrayal of a parent whose child has been taken was so heart-wrenchingly realistic that, as a parent myself, my chest feels like a block of ice just writing about it now. This is what Simon does in all of his work. No matter what kind of role he's playing, no matter light or heavy, sweet or vicious, he grabs you or strokes you or twists you and won't let go. (Paula put it all very well in her post of just a few minutes ago.)
 
Just one remark about the ending--no real spoilers--if that was supposed to be a shocking twist, it didn't work for me. More of a muddled cheat, JMO. I've probably said before that I'm a very harsh critic of movies, and a very big admirer of movies of the 1940s and '50s, so practically nothing coming out today appeals to me. I think television is much better, once you dig through the landfill for the diamonds, of course.
 
Just wanted to post this before the avalanche that will no doubt follow tonight's episode of TM. I'll be watching about 4 a.m. after I get home from work, wrapping myself up in a warm blanket with a good supply of tissues and naturally the dogs and rats. Will look forward to the posts.
 
Shoshie


#14213 From: "S. Markham" <shoshie1943@...>
Date: Thu Nov 19, 2009 9:52 pm
Subject: Re: [Simonbaker] His Right Red Hand- NO SPOILERS
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Extremely well said, Paula. Thank you! Shoshie

--- On Thu, 11/19/09, Paula Vitaris <pvitaris@...> wrote:

From: Paula Vitaris <pvitaris@...>
Subject: Re: [Simonbaker] His Right Red Hand- NO SPOILERS
To: simonbaker@yahoogroups.com
Date: Thursday, November 19, 2009, 1:27 PM

 
I think I just sent a message to this group with no reply in it...
apologies.

Anyway, re this sentence:

"Many weeks, you might think Simon Baker coasts on his star charisma
to make this show a winner."

Stuff like this makes me want to rip out my fingernails -- or the
writer's.

As if Simon would EVER coast when it comes to acting...!

When are the critics going to realize that Patrick Jane's demeanor --
his smiles, his body language, his charismatic aura, and yes, the
smugness -- is carefully planned, with laser-like precision, by Simon
Baker? That Simon is giving a *performance* ? Yes, Simon himself is
immensely charismatic, but if you watch him in real life, he never
wields that charisma at all in the same way that Jane does. I do love
episodes when the story affects Patrick to the point that he can no
longer maintain the smile and we finally see the pain always lurking
underneath, because Simon does that so well too, but I believe he is
giving as much thought to "happy" Jane as he is to distressed Jane.

I'm 3/4 through the Guardian set (and plan to write a little something
about it once I'm done, which should be in a day or two) and watching
Simon as Nick is really kind of breathtaking because his body language
is so utterly different from Patrick's. The two characters do have a
number of things in common (including charisma -- people keep
gravitating to Nick no matter how much he annoys them) but their
physicality is completely opposite from one another. And in each case
it seems completely natural and just how that character should be.

I would say the same for Jeff in Smith, who is yet another animal
entirely and again, his physicality is nothing like either Nick or
Patrick. And yet he absolutely is who he is -- there is nothing
forced about Simon as Jeff either.

Good grief. Matt Roush, take off your blinders.

But, Matt, I'm glad you liked the episode. I'm really looking forward
to 10 p.m. tonight. :)

-- Paula



#14212 From: Paula Vitaris <pvitaris@...>
Date: Thu Nov 19, 2009 9:27 pm
Subject: Re: [Simonbaker] His Right Red Hand- NO SPOILERS
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I think I just sent a message to this group with no reply in it...
apologies.

Anyway, re this sentence:

"Many weeks, you might think Simon Baker coasts on his star charisma
to make this show a winner."

Stuff like this makes me want to rip out my fingernails -- or the
writer's.

As if Simon would EVER coast when it comes to acting...!

When are the critics going to realize that Patrick Jane's demeanor --
his smiles, his body language, his charismatic aura, and yes, the
smugness -- is carefully planned, with laser-like precision, by Simon
Baker?  That Simon is giving a *performance*?  Yes, Simon himself is
immensely charismatic, but if you watch him in real life, he never
wields that charisma at all in the same way that Jane does.  I do love
episodes when the story affects Patrick to the point that he can no
longer maintain the smile and we finally see the pain always lurking
underneath, because Simon does that so well too, but I believe he is
giving as much thought to "happy" Jane as he is to distressed Jane.

I'm 3/4 through the Guardian set (and plan to write a little something
about it once I'm done, which should be in a day or two) and watching
Simon as Nick is really kind of breathtaking because his body language
is so utterly different from Patrick's.  The two characters do  have a
number of things in common (including charisma -- people keep
gravitating to Nick no matter how much he annoys them) but their
physicality is completely opposite from one another.  And in each case
it seems completely natural and just how that character should be.

I would say the same for Jeff in Smith, who is yet another animal
entirely and again, his physicality is nothing like either Nick or
Patrick.  And yet he absolutely is who he is -- there is nothing
forced about Simon as Jeff either.

Good grief.  Matt Roush, take off your blinders.

But, Matt, I'm glad you liked the episode.  I'm really looking forward
to 10 p.m. tonight. :)

   -- Paula

#14211 From: Paula Vitaris <pvitaris@...>
Date: Thu Nov 19, 2009 9:13 pm
Subject: Re: [Simonbaker] His Right Red Hand- NO SPOILERS
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On Nov 19, 2009, at 4:06 PM, tiacelaya wrote:

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> From TV Guide, love how they praised Simon. The link to the whole
> article is listed below, which you can read after the episode aires,
> but really there isn't anything said that you most likely have read
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> Many weeks, you might think Simon Baker coasts on his star charisma
> to make this show a winner. This week, he earns that Emmy nomination
> he got last season (as a reward for the show's breakout status)
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> The Mentalist usually feels like the light soufflé that comes at the
> end of a long and busy Thursday night of TV. This week, it's more
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#14210 From: "tiacelaya" <Tiacelaya@...>
Date: Thu Nov 19, 2009 9:06 pm
Subject: His Right Red Hand- NO SPOILERS
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From TV Guide, love how they praised Simon. The link to the whole article is listed below, which you can read after the episode aires, but really there isn't anything said that you most likely have read already.

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Many weeks, you might think Simon Baker coasts on his star charisma to make this show a winner. This week, he earns that Emmy nomination he got last season (as a reward for the show's breakout status)

The Mentalist usually feels like the light soufflé that comes at the end of a long and busy Thursday night of TV. This week, it's more like the main course.


 

http://tinyurl.com/ylr9aog


#14209 From: "S. Markham" <shoshie1943@...>
Date: Wed Nov 18, 2009 11:43 pm
Subject: Re: [Simonbaker] Music video
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Whew! Cold shower, ice packs, blood pressure cuff!  I didn't know I had this much life left in my 66-year-old body! And, also, as for People magazine's choice for sexiest man of the year--you couldn't pay me to read the rag and no one has offered anyway--every woman with a heartbeat knows that Simon is, was, and always will be the sexiest man alive.
 
Back to work, if I can ever concentrate again. Shoshie

--- On Wed, 11/18/09, Mariza <marizaf@...> wrote:

From: Mariza <marizaf@...>
Subject: [Simonbaker] Music video
To: simonbaker@yahoogroups.com
Date: Wednesday, November 18, 2009, 3:23 PM

 
Hi everybody,
 
I found this music video with pictures of Simon. I had never seen many of them, so I decided to share this video with you cause they can be new for some of you too.
 
Some of them are particularly. .. yummy... hehe... like the ones at 2:00, 2:22 or 2:40 to name just a few. ;)
 
Hope you enjoy... like I did.
 
 
Mariza



#14208 From: Mariza <marizaf@...>
Date: Wed Nov 18, 2009 11:23 pm
Subject: Music video
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Hi everybody,
 
I found this music video with pictures of Simon. I had never seen many of them, so I decided to share this video with you cause they can be new for some of you too.
 
Some of them are particularly... yummy... hehe... like the ones at 2:00, 2:22 or 2:40 to name just a few. ;)
 
Hope you enjoy... like I did.
 
 
Mariza


#14207 From: Paula Vitaris <pvitaris@...>
Date: Mon Nov 16, 2009 4:18 pm
Subject: Cinematical Review of Women in Trouble
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http://www.cinematical.com/2009/11/14/women-in-trouble-review/

Simon's role is mentioned but no discussion of his performance.

   -- Paula

#14206 From: Paula Vitaris <pvitaris@...>
Date: Sun Nov 15, 2009 10:22 pm
Subject: Women in Trouble Review
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A less than enthusiastic review of Women in Trouble from the Friday, November 13
New York Times.  But a kind word for Simon. :)

  -- Paula

http://movies.nytimes.com/2009/11/13/movies/13women.html?scp=1&sq=Women%20in%20t\
rouble&st=cse


MOVIE REVIEW
Women in Trouble (2009)
Love, Sex, Whatever

By MANOHLA DARGIS
Published: November 13, 2009

To judge by the swelling bosoms spilling out of the frame, the lingerie bill for
“Women in Trouble” must have been estimable. An ensemble piece that never
coheres despite a clutch of appealing actresses — notably Carla Gugino and
Emmanuelle Chriqui — this movie was written and directed by Sebastian Gutierrez,
whose screenplay credits include “The Big Bounce” (the remake), “Gothika”
and“Snakes on a Plane.” It’s a discouraging list, true, but Ms. Gugino, an
interesting actress who has yet to find a big-screen career worthy of her,
seemed reason alone to take the chance. (And Robyn Hitchcock did the score.)

She wasn’t, though the fault is scarcely hers, or Mr. Hitchcock’s. Although some
early flashes of color suggest that Mr. Gutierrez is headed for Almodóvar
country, he soon settles into discount Robert Altman: a character mosaic with a
smattering of different if fundamentally homogenous Los Angeles women yammering
about love, sex, whatever. (Josh Brolin, meanwhile, tries out a British accent
in one story thread while Simon Baker gives a little dignity to another.)

The amateurish production values might be pardonable if the clichés — the
hard-core porn star with the soft heart, the therapist who needs to heal herself
— inside the poorly lighted, badly shot images weren’t so absurd and often
insulting. Mr. Gutierrez, as suggested by all the décolletage, appears to be a
breast man. Too bad he didn’t set his sights higher.

“Women in Trouble” is rated R (Under 17 requires accompanying parent or adult
guardian). Dirty words.

WOMEN IN TROUBLE

Opens on Friday in Manhattan.

Written, produced and directed by Sebastian Gutierrez; director of photography,
Cale Finot; edited by Lisa Bromwell; music by Robyn Hitchcock; production
designer, Daniel Mailley; released by Screen Media Films. Running time: 1 hour
32 minutes.

WITH: Carla Gugino (Elektra Luxx), Connie Britton (Doris), Adrianne Palicki
(Holly Rocket), Emmanuelle Chriqui (Bambi), Simon Baker (Travis McPherson) and
Josh Brolin (Nick Chapel).

#14205 From: "frances.lee10" <frances.lee10@...>
Date: Sat Nov 14, 2009 9:48 pm
Subject: Re: Old Posts
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Misread it, only 14,000. 6 months at most - it'll be a doddle.

--- In simonbaker@yahoogroups.com, "frances.lee10" <frances.lee10@...> wrote:
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from 2003. There's some extremely interesting stuff here. Have got to number 600
so far, so should only take me about 4 years to read the remaining 140 or so
thousand!
> Frances
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#14204 From: Hellen <leentjecat@...>
Date: Sat Nov 14, 2009 9:46 pm
Subject: Re: [Simonbaker] Old Posts
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2009/11/14 frances.lee10 <frances.lee10@...>
Thought I would just mention that I'm really enjoying reading the old posts from 2003. There's some extremely interesting stuff here. Have got to number 600 so far, so should only take me about 4 years to read the remaining 140 or so thousand!
Frances

And after that there's the photos section... and then the files section...  LOL
If we won't hear from you for another 6 years or so, we'll know why.

And I am very happy everything is still there.

Hellen

#14203 From: "frances.lee10" <frances.lee10@...>
Date: Sat Nov 14, 2009 5:41 pm
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Thought I would just mention that I'm really enjoying reading the old posts from
2003. There's some extremely interesting stuff here. Have got to number 600 so
far, so should only take me about 4 years to read the remaining 140 or so
thousand!
Frances

#14202 From: "tiacelaya" <Tiacelaya@...>
Date: Fri Nov 13, 2009 6:15 am
Subject: RED BULLS NO SPOILER
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Did anyone else notice that the toddler that was in this episode is the same baby that was in THE THIN RED LINE. She was also in CARNELIAN INC. She was the baby that belonged to the man that was the suspect and his wife who had cancer. You only saw her face once when Rigsby and Cho came to arrest the man, his wife comes out holding a baby a her hip.

My guess is she must be a child of someone on the show for them to be using her again and again. She is a cute little girl, actually they probably used twins.

Tia


#14201 From: "frances.lee10" <frances.lee10@...>
Date: Thu Nov 12, 2009 3:54 pm
Subject: Re: Nick & Burton
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Hi Linda
You certainly haven't bored me - I love this type of discussion.

I agree with you that Burton was very work oriented. And there are several
scenes where its clear that Nick feels that business is his father's No. 1
priority, and is hurt by this. So yes I think this was a big factor in sending
Nick away. And this was coupled with the earlier point you made about a father's
role for that generation. At that time Dad's generally didn't look after their
children (apart from providing for them of course). But I think there is another
factor in play - the extent to which Anne was responsible for Nick being sent
away. In 'BBM' we see that she didn't want him around during her illness. And
I'm sure I remember Burton telling Liz that he returned to Anne and looked after
her when she became ill. So this meant that Nick had to be separated from them
both. I don't think Nick ever realised this.

I appreciate that Anne had a lot to deal with at that time, but think she would
have better served Nick's happiness by trying to heal the rift between father
and son. Particularly as I feel she was largely responsible for that rift. As is
sadly so often the case, when couples split there is a lot of bitterness. And
that bitterness is often very damaging to the children. I think there is quite a
bit of evidence to show that Anne felt very bitter towards Burton, and made
remarks to Nick, or in his hearing, that were anti-Burton. Even Liz accused her
of being more motivated to hurt Burton than to help Nick. Which is so sad.

Thanks for the opportunity to release these thoughts which have been buzzing
round my head and needed a way out!

Best wishes, Frances

--- In simonbaker@yahoogroups.com, Linda Wilson <Linda_31467@...> wrote:
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appreciate some of the insights it provided into how extensive some of Nick's
issues were) gave a look into Anne's problems, too. I'm sure she greeted Nick
with a hug many times, but I'm also sure that as she got sicker and closer to
death she had a lot of other things demanding her attention, one of them being
what she could do to ensure Nick would be cared for and more important, happy.
It was beginning to be apparent to her that the only possibility was Burton,
inadequate though she knew him to be, and I'm sure that accounted for a lot of
her being preoccupied much of the time. She really didn't have anyone else--Liz
was barely out of her teens herself, if the chronology we were provided with was
accurate, at least in part, and no court would have allowed her guardianship of
a 12-year-old if a living parent who had already indicated his willingness to
step up was in the picture. Then, too, Anne was unfaithful and used pills--the
reason Burton gave for divorcing her--and some of the baggage connected with
that ws probably still present. And from what I've read and heard, there comes a
time if one is dealing with a terminal illness that everything else but
preparing for death becomes a non-issue.
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originally seemed a contradiction inconsistent with what has been said by and
about him, but what I think happened is that Burton realized just how much time
and effort working through bereavement with a resentful tween would entail and
coupled with the fact that he was mourning Anne himself--if you remember, he
said in Season 1 that they had talked about getting back together, but she got
too sick too fast to be able to act on the idea--that he was overwhelmed. Also,
we're talking the early 1980s, a tumultuous time for American business (although
I don't know a time that hasn't been!) and I think he was probably working very
hard to build the firm. I know a lot of Sara Grauvogel's fiction and that of
some other people has postulated Burton having other children besides Nick, but
I think that Burton's real "other child" if you will, was Fallin & Associates.
From what I've heard and experienced, building up your own business, whatever it
may be, requires an enormous amount of time and energy as well as ability to
keep an awful lot of eggs in the air at once. Add to that Burton's need to
succeed in law, a very demanding profession, and given that another thought in
his mind was "I'm doing this for Nicholas" and I can see where he would have
thought a boarding school, especially some prep school with a good reputation
for attendance ensuring admission to a good college and law school (a very large
consideration for some parents here in the States) represented a solution that
would work for him and Nick both. Also, Burton seems to think that any problem
can be solved if you throw enough money at it, and most of the time it
works--except, poor fellow, for the things that are most important.
> I didn't mean to run on so long, but to my amazement I have a little spare
time today, and this is a very pleasant way to use it. I hope I haven't bored
you.
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generation, men were seen very much as the breadwinners and women as the
home-makers. My dad wouldn't even discipline us, he saw that as my mum's job.
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relationship with his mother had been warm and affectionate. So in this episode
when young Nick returns from school, I expected to see a welcoming hug from his
mum. But the scene between them is very brief and there is no physical contact.
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reason I started watching TG in the first place was Nick and Burton. Although
the Nick-Lulu thing had its moments, boy-girl relationships in any and all
permutations and combinations are, frankly, a dime a dozen and get boring after
a bit, at least for me. Besides, It was apparent that  many of Nick's problems
stemmed from his relationship with Burton--his resentment that his mother was
dead and his father alive, his anger at Burton's sending him to boarding school
at a lime when Nick would have needed the familiarity of home most, Burton's
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performance was nothing short of amazing, as was the chemistry between thee two
characters.) Burton came from a time and place where men did not show physical
affection for each other aside from the occasional slap on the fanny in a
football huddle or pat on the back. However much he might have wanted to (and I
know I wrote some fanfic that had him transcending this barrier a little), I
honestly don't think he could have: the sociocultural attitudes would have been
too strong. I have no doubt that Burton shed tears over Nick more than once, but
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Nick and Burton as heart-breaking, infuriating, and uplifting is perfect.
However, your comment that there's never any show of physical affection between
them isn't strictly the case. But the affection, (other than an off-hand pat on
the back) in the few instances it happens, is when one or the other of them,
almost always Nick, is in emotional and/or physical extremis, when he is
completely broken down, sobbing, fallen off the wagon, and so forth, when all
his defenses are not just down but trampled almost to death. And I remember so
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affection except accompanied by sex is of course emblematic of his shutdown
emotionally. This is the way Simon intended to play the character, as he has
said in interviews, as almost completely interior. And then there is the "parent
squirm factor," so evident in Nick and Burton scenes. Speaking for myself and
probably a lot of people, I loved my parents, but I wouldn't be caught dead
discussing anything intimate or emotional or personal with them, especially my
father. I can certainly feel that coming from both Nick and Burton. My father
and I had a difficult relationship, and there were many times watching Nick and
Burton that I thought, if my father ever tried to reach out to me like that, I
wouldn't have been able to run fast enough. Both my parents are gone now, which
tends to focus the mind on what could have been. Please forgive the lack of
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emotionally drained at the end of it. Your husband sounds like a saint. I
daren't even mention Simon Baker to my friends any more, because they just roll
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compelling and undoubtedly the most important one in the program. And we're on
the same wavelength as Simon here. I remember reading an interview where he said
that for him the core of the program was the relationship between Nick and his
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sometimes uplifting. And for me, understanding Burton is an important part of
the key to understanding Nick. Over time, you get to discover the deep love they
have for eachother, and I think this is a discovery for them as
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discovery is such a painful one, as they are both so emotionally repressed. Its
revealing that there is never any show of physical affection between them, and
that Burton is incapable of giving Nick emotional support. All his help and
support is of a practical nature. I think this is not unusual - I know so many
families where Mum provides the emotional support and encouragement and Dad
provides the practical help and quite frequently, the criticism.
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shaping Nick, and of colouring his perception of his father. Nick clearly
idolises his mother, and Burton, perhaps misguidedly, has protected Nick from
the reality. (Of course, the issue of whether children should always be told the
truth is a fundamental question that the program raises, and is a fascinating
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#14200 From: Linda Wilson <Linda_31467@...>
Date: Wed Nov 11, 2009 6:07 pm
Subject: RE: [Simonbaker] Re: Nick & Burton
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Hi, Frances. Yes, I think that episode (which I didn't like but could appreciate some of the insights it provided into how extensive some of Nick's issues were) gave a look into Anne's problems, too. I'm sure she greeted Nick with a hug many times, but I'm also sure that as she got sicker and closer to death she had a lot of other things demanding her attention, one of them being what she could do to ensure Nick would be cared for and more important, happy. It was beginning to be apparent to her that the only possibility was Burton, inadequate though she knew him to be, and I'm sure that accounted for a lot of her being preoccupied much of the time. She really didn't have anyone else--Liz was barely out of her teens herself, if the chronology we were provided with was accurate, at least in part, and no court would have allowed her guardianship of a 12-year-old if a living parent who had already indicated his willingness to step up was in the picture. Then, too, Anne was unfaithful and used pills--the reason Burton gave for divorcing her--and some of the baggage connected with that ws probably still present. And from what I've read and heard, there comes a time if one is dealing with a terminal illness that everything else but preparing for death becomes a non-issue.

Burton's willingness to send Nick off to school when he had fought for custody originally seemed a contradiction inconsistent with what has been said by and about him, but what I think happened is that Burton realized just how much time and effort working through bereavement with a resentful tween would entail and coupled with the fact that he was mourning Anne himself--if you remember, he said in Season 1 that they had talked about getting back together, but she got too sick too fast to be able to act on the idea--that he was overwhelmed. Also, we're talking the early 1980s, a tumultuous time for American business (although I don't know a time that hasn't been!) and I think he was probably working very hard to build the firm. I know a lot of Sara Grauvogel's fiction and that of some other people has postulated Burton having other children besides Nick, but I think that Burton's real "other child" if you will, was Fallin & Associates. From what I've heard and experienced, building up your own business, whatever it may be, requires an enormous amount of time and energy as well as ability to keep an awful lot of eggs in the air at once. Add to that Burton's need to succeed in law, a very demanding profession, and given that another thought in his mind was "I'm doing this for Nicholas" and I can see where he would have thought a boarding school, especially some prep school with a good reputation for attendance ensuring admission to a good college and law school (a very large consideration for some parents here in the States) represented a solution that would work for him and Nick both. Also, Burton seems to think that any problem can be solved if you throw enough money at it, and most of the time it works--except, poor fellow, for the things that are most important.

I didn't mean to run on so long, but to my amazement I have a little spare time today, and this is a very pleasant way to use it. I hope I haven't bored you.

Linda


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Date: Wed, 11 Nov 2009 12:49:25 +0000
Subject: [Simonbaker] Re: Nick & Burton

 
Hi Linda
I think this is a very good point about Burton being from a time when men didn't show physical affection to their sons. Certainly in the UK for this generation, men were seen very much as the breadwinners and women as the home-makers. My dad wouldn't even discipline us, he saw that as my mum's job.
This has reminded me of something that I have wondered about from time to time. Until 'Beautiful Blue Mystic', I had always assumed that Nick's relationship with his mother had been warm and affectionate. So in this episode when young Nick returns from school, I expected to see a welcoming hug from his mum. But the scene between them is very brief and there is no physical contact. So the question is, am I over-analysing this, or was it intended to show young Nick as a sad, isolated little boy without any demonstrative affection in his life?
Best wishes, Frances

--- In simonbaker@yahoogroups.com, Linda Wilson <Linda_31467@...> wrote:
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> You and Frances are both right, many times over, Shoshie. For my part, the reason I started watching TG in the first place was Nick and Burton. Although the Nick-Lulu thing had its moments, boy-girl relationships in any and all permutations and combinations are, frankly, a dime a dozen and get boring after a bit, at least for me. Besides, It was apparent that many of Nick's problems stemmed from his relationship with Burton--his resentment that his mother was dead and his father alive, his anger at Burton's sending him to boarding school at a lime when Nick would have needed the familiarity of home most, Burton's seeming insensitivity to Nick's needs, such as the Shannon business.
> Some understanding of Burton is needed here. (BTW, Dabney Coleman's performance was nothing short of amazing, as was the chemistry between thee two characters.) Burton came from a time and place where men did not show physical affection for each other aside from the occasional slap on the fanny in a football huddle or pat on the back. However much he might have wanted to (and I know I wrote some fanfic that had him transcending this barrier a little), I honestly don't think he could have: the sociocultural attitudes would have been too strong. I have no doubt that Burton shed tears over Nick more than once, but I'm also sure that no one else ever saw them.
> It' time to get out of this office for today; when I get a chance I'll chat more. I love this discussion, though, and I'm glad I have a chance to join in.
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> situation. Nick's inability to accept even a hug from anyone or any kind of affection except accompanied by sex is of course emblematic of his shutdown emotionally. This is the way Simon intended to play the character, as he has said in interviews, as almost completely interior. And then there is the "parent squirm factor," so evident in Nick and Burton scenes. Speaking for myself and probably a lot of people, I loved my parents, but I wouldn't be caught dead discussing anything intimate or emotional or personal with them, especially my father. I can certainly feel that coming from both Nick and Burton. My father and I had a difficult relationship, and there were many times watching Nick and Burton that I thought, if my father ever tried to reach out to me like that, I wouldn't have been able to run fast enough. Both my parents are gone now, which tends to focus the mind on what could have been. Please forgive the lack of proper paragraphing
> and organization here. I just have to get all of this out or it will evaporate from my elderly brain. Thanks again for your great post.
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> To: simonbaker@yahoogroups.com
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> well. But I think what makes it so heart-rending is that the process of discovery is such a painful one, as they are both so emotionally repressed. Its revealing that there is never any show of physical affection between them, and that Burton is incapable of giving Nick emotional support. All his help and support is of a practical nature. I think this is not unusual - I know so many families where Mum provides the emotional support and encouragement and Dad provides the practical help and quite frequently, the criticism.
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> realise that much of what his mother said about Burton is untrue - that is part of his journey of discovery. And without having consciously thought about it, I discovered that I felt very angry with her. And the more I thought about it, the more angry I felt for the damage she did. But am I being too harsh on her? I'd love to hear what you think.
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#14199 From: Paula Vitaris <pvitaris@...>
Date: Wed Nov 11, 2009 4:37 pm
Subject: DVD Verdict review of The Guardian
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DVD Verdict weighs in with its review of The Guardian.

http://www.dvdverdict.com/reviews/guardian1.php

The reviewer likes the show but doesn't find it memorable and not sure
if he'd bother watching seasons 2 and 3.  However,  he is very
impressed by the performances of Simon and Dabney Coleman.

   -- Paula

#14198 From: "frances.lee10" <frances.lee10@...>
Date: Wed Nov 11, 2009 12:49 pm
Subject: Re: Nick & Burton
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Hi Linda
I think this is a very good point about Burton being from a time when men didn't
show physical affection to their sons. Certainly in the UK for this generation,
men were seen very much as the breadwinners and women as the home-makers. My dad
wouldn't even discipline us, he saw that as my mum's job.
This has reminded me of something that I have wondered about from time to time.
Until 'Beautiful Blue Mystic', I had always assumed that Nick's relationship
with his mother had been warm and affectionate. So in this episode when young
Nick returns from school, I expected to see a welcoming hug from his mum. But
the scene between them is very brief and there is no physical contact. So the
question is, am I over-analysing this, or was it intended to show young Nick as
a sad, isolated little boy without any demonstrative affection in his life?
Best wishes, Frances

--- In simonbaker@yahoogroups.com, Linda Wilson <Linda_31467@...> wrote:
>
>
> You and Frances are both right, many times over, Shoshie. For my part, the
reason I started watching TG in the first place was Nick and Burton. Although
the Nick-Lulu thing had its moments, boy-girl relationships in any and all
permutations and combinations are, frankly, a dime a dozen and get boring after
a bit, at least for me. Besides, It was apparent that  many of Nick's problems
stemmed from his relationship with Burton--his resentment that his mother was
dead and his father alive, his anger at Burton's sending him to boarding school
at a lime when Nick would have needed the familiarity of home most, Burton's
seeming insensitivity to Nick's needs, such as the Shannon business.
> Some understanding of Burton is needed here. (BTW, Dabney Coleman's
performance was nothing short of amazing, as was the chemistry between thee two
characters.) Burton came from a time and place where men did not show physical
affection for each other aside from the occasional slap on the fanny in a
football huddle or pat on the back. However much he might have wanted to (and I
know I wrote some fanfic that had him transcending this barrier a little), I
honestly don't think he could have: the sociocultural attitudes would have been
too strong. I have no doubt that Burton shed tears over Nick more than once, but
I'm also sure that no one else ever saw them.
> It' time to get out of this office for today; when I get a chance I'll chat
more. I love this discussion, though, and I'm glad I have a chance to join in.
>
> To: simonbaker@yahoogroups.com
> From: shoshie1943@...
> Date: Sun, 8 Nov 2009 14:31:01 -0800
> Subject: Re: [Simonbaker] Nick & Burton
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that I love to read them. Your description of the scenes between Nick and Burton
as heart-breaking, infuriating, and uplifting is perfect. However, your comment
that there's never any show of physical affection between them isn't strictly
the case. But the affection, (other than an off-hand pat on the back) in the few
instances it happens, is when one or the other of them, almost always Nick, is
in emotional and/or physical extremis, when he is completely broken down,
sobbing, fallen off the wagon, and so forth, when all his defenses are not just
down but trampled almost to death. And I remember so many heart-rending scenes
when Burton wants to reach out to Nick and Nick withdraws and leaves the room.
Nick is always walking out on someone or some
>  situation. Nick's inability to accept even a hug from anyone or any kind of
affection except accompanied by sex is of course emblematic of his shutdown
emotionally. This is the way Simon intended to play the character, as he has
said in interviews, as almost completely interior. And then there is the "parent
squirm factor," so evident in Nick and Burton scenes. Speaking for myself and
probably a lot of people, I loved my parents, but I wouldn't be caught dead
discussing anything intimate or emotional or personal with them, especially my
father. I can certainly feel that coming from both Nick and Burton. My father
and I had a difficult relationship, and there were many times watching Nick and
Burton that I thought, if my father ever tried to reach out to me like that, I
wouldn't have been able to run fast enough. Both my parents are gone now, which
tends to focus the mind on what could have been. Please forgive the lack of
proper paragraphing
>  and organization here. I just have to get all of this out or it will
evaporate from my elderly brain. Thanks again for your great post.
>
> Shoshie
>
> --- On Fri, 11/6/09, Frances Lee <frances.lee10@...> wrote:
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> Subject: [Simonbaker] Nick & Burton
> To: simonbaker@yahoogroups.com
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> Thank you so much for this lovely generous welcome to the group. I can't
believe you watched all 67 episodes in about a week - you must have been
emotionally drained at the end of it. Your husband sounds like a saint. I
daren't even mention Simon Baker to my friends any more, because they just roll
their eyes at me!
>
> I completely agree with you that Nick and Burton's relationship is compelling
and undoubtedly the most important one in the program. And we're on the same
wavelength as Simon here. I remember reading an interview where he said that for
him the core of the program was the relationship between Nick and his father.
>
> I find the scenes between them both heart-breaking and infuriating, but
sometimes uplifting. And for me, understanding Burton is an important part of
the key to understanding Nick. Over time, you get to discover the deep love they
have for eachother, and I think this is a discovery for them as
>  well. But I think what makes it so heart-rending is that the process of
discovery is such a painful one, as they are both so emotionally repressed. Its
revealing that there is never any show of physical affection between them, and
that Burton is incapable of giving Nick emotional support. All his help and
support is of a practical nature. I think this is not unusual - I know so many
families where Mum provides the emotional support and encouragement and Dad
provides the practical help and quite frequently, the criticism.
>
> I find it interesting to speculate on the part Nick's mother played in shaping
Nick, and of colouring his perception of his father. Nick clearly idolises his
mother, and Burton, perhaps misguidedly, has protected Nick from the reality.
(Of course, the issue of whether children should always be told the truth is a
fundamental question that the program raises, and is a fascinating topic in its
own right!) But Nick does come to
>  realise that much of what his mother said about Burton is untrue - that is
part of his journey of discovery. And without having consciously thought about
it, I discovered that I felt very angry with her. And the more I thought about
it, the more angry I felt for the damage she did. But am I being too harsh on
her? I'd love to hear what you think.
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#14197 From: Linda Wilson <Linda_31467@...>
Date: Tue Nov 10, 2009 10:20 pm
Subject: RE: ***SPAM*** [Simonbaker] Nick & Lulu
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Cecelia, I found it, not by my own design, a kind soul found some of my stuff on it and told me about it, supplying the URL in the process. Happy reading. It's:
http://roomfornick.tripod.com

Linda

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Date: Wed, 4 Nov 2009 11:36:12 -0500
Subject: RE: ***SPAM*** [Simonbaker] Nick & Lulu

 




Cecelia, the TheGuardian_NickandLulu" site has been closed. I'm at work and can't look up the new one (it's got just about everything anyone ever wrote), but as soon as I can, I'll post the name.
 Nice to know we have another TG convert!
Linda W.

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From: ceciliah@montevideo.com.uy
Date: Wed, 4 Nov 2009 08:30:33 -0200
Subject: Re: ***SPAM*** [Simonbaker] Nick & Lulu

 
Hi, Frances!....welcome to the site. I hope you enjoyed it as much as we´ve
been doing it.
I´ve been here since TG was on aire, and discussions about this subject
were MASSIVE; in fact, this site open when some of the N/LL shippers and LL
bashers started being mean to each others (my english is kind of weird, I
speak Spanish, but I´m sure you understand what I mean).
I´m one of the few N/LL shippers in the site, and , as you, always saw the
end as a no-ending for their relationship. I always thought she loved him
(in fact, I think her love was more mature, hence her disappointment and
desire to leave. Imo, Nick never showed to be commited to them), and she
would give him a place in her and their daughter´s life.
It´s early here and I have to go to work, but I´d love to discuss this; it
was my fav topic of the show (I liked Burton a lot, but his obsession with
the Gressler women drove me nuts).
There´s a site dedicated to them, with great fanfics too, called "
TheGuardian_NickandLulu"....
The show aired here until last month, so I watched it many times, and every
time I was more sure about their love. Anyway, it might be the was Lulu was
written, or just that the actress couldnt convey it to the eyes of other
beholders. It´s an explosive subject, for sure!
cheers,
cecilia

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>Hi - I'm new here and am a massive fan of Simon Baker. I've got all the
>episodes of The Guardian on DVD and have watched them several times. In
>true David Hollander fashion there was ambiguity on Nick & Lulu's
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#14196 From: Linda Wilson <Linda_31467@...>
Date: Tue Nov 10, 2009 12:28 am
Subject: RE: [Simonbaker] Nick & Burton
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You and Frances are both right, many times over, Shoshie. For my part, the reason I started watching TG in the first place was Nick and Burton. Although the Nick-Lulu thing had its moments, boy-girl relationships in any and all permutations and combinations are, frankly, a dime a dozen and get boring after a bit, at least for me. Besides, It was apparent that  many of Nick's problems stemmed from his relationship with Burton--his resentment that his mother was dead and his father alive, his anger at Burton's sending him to boarding school at a lime when Nick would have needed the familiarity of home most, Burton's seeming insensitivity to Nick's needs, such as the Shannon business. 

Some understanding of Burton is needed here. (BTW, Dabney Coleman's performance was nothing short of amazing, as was the chemistry between thee two characters.) Burton came from a time and place where men did not show physical affection for each other aside from the occasional slap on the fanny in a football huddle or pat on the back. However much he might have wanted to (and I know I wrote some fanfic that had him transcending this barrier a little), I honestly don't think he could have: the sociocultural attitudes would have been too strong. I have no doubt that Burton shed tears over Nick more than once, but I'm also sure that no one else ever saw them.

It' time to get out of this office for today; when I get a chance I'll chat more. I love this discussion, though, and I'm glad I have a chance to join in.


To: simonbaker@yahoogroups.com
From: shoshie1943@...
Date: Sun, 8 Nov 2009 14:31:01 -0800
Subject: Re: [Simonbaker] Nick & Burton

 
Thank you, Frances! Your observations are so spot-on and well-expressed that I love to read them. Your description of the scenes between Nick and Burton as heart-breaking, infuriating, and uplifting is perfect. However, your comment that there's never any show of physical affection between them isn't strictly the case. But the affection, (other than an off-hand pat on the back) in the few instances it happens, is when one or the other of them, almost always Nick, is in emotional and/or physical extremis, when he is completely broken down, sobbing, fallen off the wagon, and so forth, when all his defenses are not just down but trampled almost to death. And I remember so many heart-rending scenes when Burton wants to reach out to Nick and Nick withdraws and leaves the room. Nick is always walking out on someone or some situation. Nick's inability to accept even a hug from anyone or any kind of affection except accompanied by sex is of course emblematic of his shutdown emotionally. This is the way Simon intended to play the character, as he has said in interviews, as almost completely interior. And then there is the "parent squirm factor," so evident in Nick and Burton scenes. Speaking for myself and probably a lot of people, I loved my parents, but I wouldn't be caught dead discussing anything intimate or emotional or personal with them, especially my father. I can certainly feel that coming from both Nick and Burton. My father and I had a difficult relationship, and there were many times watching Nick and Burton that I thought, if my father ever tried to reach out to me like that, I wouldn't have been able to run fast enough. Both my parents are gone now, which tends to focus the mind on what could have been. Please forgive the lack of proper paragraphing and organization here. I just have to get all of this out or it will evaporate from my elderly brain. Thanks again for your great post.
 
Shoshie

--- On Fri, 11/6/09, Frances Lee <frances.lee10@yahoo.com> wrote:

From: Frances Lee <frances.lee10@yahoo.com>
Subject: [Simonbaker] Nick & Burton
To: simonbaker@yahoogroups.com
Date: Friday, November 6, 2009, 1:48 AM

 
Hi Shostie

Thank you so much for this lovely generous welcome to the group. I can't believe you watched all 67 episodes in about a week - you must have been emotionally drained at the end of it. Your husband sounds like a saint. I daren't even mention Simon Baker to my friends any more, because they just roll their eyes at me!

I completely agree with you that Nick and Burton's relationship is compelling and undoubtedly the most important one in the program. And we're on the same wavelength as Simon here. I remember reading an interview where he said that for him the core of the program was the relationship between Nick and his father.

I find the scenes between them both heart-breaking and infuriating, but sometimes uplifting. And for me, understanding Burton is an important part of the key to understanding Nick. Over time, you get to discover the deep love they have for eachother, and I think this is a discovery for them as well. But I think what makes it so heart-rending is that the process of discovery is such a painful one, as they are both so emotionally repressed. Its revealing that there is never any show of physical affection between them, and that Burton is incapable of giving Nick emotional support. All his help and support is of a practical nature. I think this is not unusual - I know so many families where Mum provides the emotional support and encouragement and Dad provides the practical help and quite frequently, the criticism.

I find it interesting to speculate on the part Nick's mother played in shaping Nick, and of colouring his perception of his father. Nick clearly idolises his mother, and Burton, perhaps misguidedly, has protected Nick from the reality. (Of course, the issue of whether children should always be told the truth is a fundamental question that the program raises, and is a fascinating topic in its own right!) But Nick does come to realise that much of what his mother said about Burton is untrue - that is part of his journey of discovery. And without having consciously thought about it, I discovered that I felt very angry with her. And the more I thought about it, the more angry I felt for the damage she did. But am I being too harsh on her? I'd love to hear what you think.

Best wishes.

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Date: Tue Nov 10, 2009 12:01 am
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2010 PCA Nominees

Happy Monday. So it¡¯s official¡­the People¡¯s Choice Awards race is about to begin ¡ª our PCA Nominations Press Conference is tomorrow morning, right here in Los Angeles. And, to lend a hand with the hoopla we¡¯ve enlisted the help of some very special guests to announce the 2010 nominees, including Kris Allen, Modern Family¡¯s Sofia Vergara, Jeff Probst, and Cat Deeley.

Over the past few weeks about a zillion people weighed in, and you¡¯re about to find out which stars are now in the final running to take home trophies. (Don¡¯t forget, these folks are in the race for one of the brand new Waterford trophies you also voted on). Plus, yours truly will be tweeting live from the press conference ¡­so you¡¯ll get the scoop right when it happens.

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http://www.peopleschoice.com/pca/


#14194 From: Frances Lee <frances.lee10@...>
Date: Mon Nov 9, 2009 11:39 pm
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Thanks Shoshie - this is brilliant. You've given me plenty to think about, which is just what I was hoping for from this group. I retired about 18 months ago, and although I don't miss the work, what's left of my brain does sometimes miss the stimulation.
I hadn't thought about the 'parent squirm factor' which is a good point. I was never able to talk about anything really personal to my parents, and when my mother tried I would get really embarrassed and quickly change the subject. I think it's relevant to Nick and Burton's relationship, but I need some time and perhaps fresh eyes to think through to what extent it's significant.
One of your other points that I find interesting is Nick's inability to accept affection unless accompanied by sex. I agree with this entirely, but I hadn't ever thought about it in such a clearly defined way. I find the scene at the end of 'All is Mended' very moving. It's a very simple scene and I have often wondered why I find it so powerful. I'm now thinking that perhaps subconsciously I had recognised that Nick's need to give comfort and to be comforted, represented a significant emotional step for him. Particularly as he took the initiative, unlike in 'Heart' where Lori comforts him much as a mother would comfort a child.
I've also been trying to remember instances of physical affection between Nick and his father. The only one I can think of is in 'Causality' where as you say Nick has completely broken down. Can you think of any other occasions?
I always find it fascinating to hear Simon talking about his take on different characters. And it never ceases to amaze me how successful he is at achieving what he sets out to do. His ability to internalise is what I admire most about him as an actor. And directors, particularly on The Guardian and The Mentalist, have total confidence in his ability, so that we get those remarkable, still, silent close-ups where you can see and feel all his emotions. I heard Simon say that he finds the internal performance easier than the external. I should imagine this is rare, as I think there are very few actors who can bring this depth to their roles.
Hope to hear from you again soon.
Best wishes, Frances


#14193 From: "tiacelaya" <Tiacelaya@...>
Date: Mon Nov 9, 2009 10:48 pm
Subject: Re: ITZIN TO 24: SPOILER MAYBE!
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--- In simonbaker@yahoogroups.com, "S. Markham" <shoshie1943@...> wrote:
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> I wouldn't consider this a spoiler because it's been published in TV Guide and
elsewhere, and it doesn't mention names, but I'm issuing a SPOILER alert anyway.
>  
> According to these published accounts, there will be a death of "someone
significant" on TM this week (or next, can't remember). Now, when they say that,
I'm sure we're all intended to become hysterical, but the most likely victim to
my mind would be Gregory Itzin, especially in light of his return to 24. Justy
saying.
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This is from spoiler TV , Bosco and both his agents are found dead in their CBI
Office.  Since His Right Red Hand is suppose to be a Red John episode, I can
only assume that RJ kills them, which is pretty scary since this means he could
kill Jane at any time he really wanted to.

Can't wait to see the episode, to find out how he was able to get to them, since
Bosco always has his gun holster on.  How did he get at them, possible he drugs
their drinks first (???)

Tia

#14192 From: "S. Markham" <shoshie1943@...>
Date: Mon Nov 9, 2009 9:46 pm
Subject: ITZIN TO 24: SPOILER MAYBE!
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I wouldn't consider this a spoiler because it's been published in TV Guide and elsewhere, and it doesn't mention names, but I'm issuing a SPOILER alert anyway.
 
According to these published accounts, there will be a death of "someone significant" on TM this week (or next, can't remember). Now, when they say that, I'm sure we're all intended to become hysterical, but the most likely victim to my mind would be Gregory Itzin, especially in light of his return to 24. Justy saying.
 
Shoshie




#14191 From: Paula Vitaris <pvitaris@...>
Date: Mon Nov 9, 2009 2:00 pm
Subject: Review of Not Forgotten
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Review of the Blu-Ray disc.

http://www.dvdverdict.com/reviews/notforgottenbluray.php

No real spoilers.

   -- Paula

#14190 From: "MicheleL" <culturevulture73@...>
Date: Mon Nov 9, 2009 12:18 pm
Subject: Re: CBI Boss to go back to his role on 24 at end of season
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--- In simonbaker@yahoogroups.com, "crlttcntn" <crlttcntn@...> wrote:
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> I read this article about CBI Boss Gregory Itzin will return to his role on 24
towards at the end of next year.  I wonder does that mean he is leaving The
Mentalist and CBI will have a new boss or does it mean that The Mentalist even
though it will be in syndication on TNT will end, though the article said it
will be in full syndication on TNT in 2011?  If it continues I hope that it
remains on CBS as well as I do not get TNT.

Itzin might be going somewhere (although he could easily do both parts, I would
think) but The Mentalist is going nowhere. The deal for syndication on TNT is
the off network reruns, not originals.

Michele



>
> Carlette
>
> President Logan back on 24
>
> Gregory Itzin, currently seen as the CBI boss on The Mentalist, will reprise
his popular 24 role in a multi-episode arc towards the end of next year's eighth
season.
>
> EW.com's Michael Ausiello reports that Itzin will be back when his former
President Charles Logan is called in by serving President Allison Taylor (Cherry
Jones) to help out with a diplomatic crisis.
>
> Logan was last seen in the dreadful sixth season, getting stabbed by his
looney-tunes wife Martha (Jean Smart). Obviously, he survived the assault.
>
>
>
>
> [Published: 3-Nov-2009]
>

#14189 From: "crlttcntn" <crlttcntn@...>
Date: Mon Nov 9, 2009 5:51 am
Subject: The Mentalist
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It appears The Mentalist is making inroads on Thursday nights. It was the most
watched show this week beating out Grey Anatomy.

Carlette

http://blog.zap2it.com/frominsidethebox/2009/11/tv-ratings-the-mentalist-greys-a\
natomy-lead-thursday.html

#14188 From: "tiacelaya" <Tiacelaya@...>
Date: Mon Nov 9, 2009 5:46 am
Subject: Re: Black Gold & Red Blood-----Loved Simon
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In simonbaker@yahoogroups.com, "S. Markham" <shoshie1943@...> wrote

>The mouse was fine until Patrick tossed it in the room with the guard
who was terrified >of mice and locked them in together. Run, little
mousie, run for your life.
--- >

A couple of things in the Jail scenes reminded me of the character Jeff
in Smith.

The part where he kissed the cute little mouse reminded me of the 3rd
episode of Smith when Jeff used a series of kittens to test the security
system of the Military base they were trying to break into.  One of the
time he kisses the kitten before he let it go.

Also the whole jail escape seemed like something that would have
happened in Smith.



Tia






> I agree with Tia and Leslie about the completely unrealistic nature of
this episode, but that didn't bother me in the least, since so much of
the "procedural" aspects of the show are like that. Very enjoyable,
funny jail scenes, pure Patrick. Did anyone notice that Patrick was the
only inmate (that I could see) who had his shirt tucked into his pants?
Nice touch. HIs scenes with his bunkmate and the tough guy he hypnotized
and had crying remembering his mommy were delightful. I was somewhat
existentially concerned about the mouse, however, being a big rodent
lover. The mouse was fine until Patrick tossed it in the room with the
guard who was terrified of mice and locked them in together. Run, little
mousie, run for your life.
> Â
> Some of you may remember how much I expressed my dislike for Terry
Kinney before he started on the show, remembering him in
"thirtysomething" from the eighties. OK, OK, I admit it, I like him in
TM. The conflict between Bosco and Patrick is deliciously well
done, and his softer side comes over well when he relates to Tunney. I
think Patrick is very close to the truth when he speculates on what
happened between the two of them in the past.
> Â
> Blueberry or cranberry? Put in your orders now.
> Â
> Shoshie
>
> --- On Fri, 11/6/09, Lesley Tillier celestine@... wrote:
>
>
> From: Lesley Tillier celestine@...
> Subject: Re: [Simonbaker] Black Gold & Red Blood-----Loved Simon
> To: simonbaker@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Friday, November 6, 2009, 7:34 PM
>
>
> Â
>
>
>
>
> I enjoyed the episode, but T.M. can be very unrealistic at times, for
sure. Where are the "scene of crime officers" on this series?
>
> Detectives like these don't do that kind of work, there are specially
trained officers to do that, usually wearing suits similar to hazmat,
but without the head covering.
>
> Of course, we all know the state of California is broke, so maybe
their cops do have to double up on assignments. <g>
>
> Looking forward to next week's episode, when Jane and Bosco have to
work together, whether they want to or not.
>
> Lesley
>
> From: tiacelaya
> Sent: Friday, November 6, 2009 7:54 PM
> To: simonbaker@yahoogro ups.com
> Subject: [Simonbaker] Black Gold Red Blood-----Loved Simon
>
>
> Â
>
>
> The writers let Jane get away with a lot, but Heller let the flood
waters out in this episode, which made for a very unrealistic one. But
also for a very Entertaining and Hilarious one and of course that's why
we watch this program, not for a police realistic procedure.
> Loved the whole prison scenes. Jane can't fight his way out of a wet
paper bag, but he can sure charm and talk his way out of almost any
situation (Bosco being one exception) Before lights out Jane had gotten
to know his cell mate so well he even had the hand shake down. :-D
> Now Bosco might have let him off the hook, but would Minelli have?
When Jane was first arrested he would do nothing to stop Jane from going
to Jail since he had crossed the line. Also since Jane was re-arrested
I'm sure he had to go back to the county jail. I'm sure he would have
gotten a different reception from the inmates, most likely cheering him
because of his escape, but how would the guards react. Not so kindly,
wouldn't have been surprised to see some bruises on his pretty face.
Glad they didn't go there.
> The inmate that Jane was hypnotizing was the one that posted on IMDB,
who said about Simon "14th hour of a long day on a Friday night before
the weekend, and he STILL, was the nicest guy, having a good time
working, very, VERY rare, among series regulars"
> You could tell that Simon had a fun time working on this episode. And
good for him on the news that TNT has picked up the show to air in
syndication. He'll be making more money even after the program ends,
which I hope is not anytime soon.
> Â
> Tia
>

#14187 From: "crlttcntn" <crlttcntn@...>
Date: Mon Nov 9, 2009 5:27 am
Subject: CBI Boss to go back to his role on 24 at end of season
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I read this article about CBI Boss Gregory Itzin will return to his role on 24
towards at the end of next year.  I wonder does that mean he is leaving The
Mentalist and CBI will have a new boss or does it mean that The Mentalist even
though it will be in syndication on TNT will end, though the article said it
will be in full syndication on TNT in 2011?  If it continues I hope that it
remains on CBS as well as I do not get TNT.

Carlette

President Logan back on 24

Gregory Itzin, currently seen as the CBI boss on The Mentalist, will reprise his
popular 24 role in a multi-episode arc towards the end of next year's eighth
season.

EW.com's Michael Ausiello reports that Itzin will be back when his former
President Charles Logan is called in by serving President Allison Taylor (Cherry
Jones) to help out with a diplomatic crisis.

Logan was last seen in the dreadful sixth season, getting stabbed by his
looney-tunes wife Martha (Jean Smart). Obviously, he survived the assault.




[Published: 3-Nov-2009]

#14186 From: Paula Vitaris <pvitaris@...>
Date: Mon Nov 9, 2009 4:18 am
Subject: Article about Women in Trouble
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An article about Women in Trouble.

http://www.latimes.com/entertainment/news/la-ca-indiefocus8-2009nov08,0,5160295.\
story

Brief mention of Simon.

   -- Paula

#14185 From: "S. Markham" <shoshie1943@...>
Date: Sun Nov 8, 2009 10:44 pm
Subject: Re: [Simonbaker] Black Gold & Red Blood-----Loved Simon
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I agree with Tia and Leslie about the completely unrealistic nature of this episode, but that didn't bother me in the least, since so much of the "procedural" aspects of the show are like that. Very enjoyable, funny jail scenes, pure Patrick. Did anyone notice that Patrick was the only inmate (that I could see) who had his shirt tucked into his pants? Nice touch. HIs scenes with his bunkmate and the tough guy he hypnotized and had crying remembering his mommy were delightful. I was somewhat existentially concerned about the mouse, however, being a big rodent lover. The mouse was fine until Patrick tossed it in the room with the guard who was terrified of mice and locked them in together. Run, little mousie, run for your life.
 
Some of you may remember how much I expressed my dislike for Terry Kinney before he started on the show, remembering him in "thirtysomething" from the eighties. OK, OK, I admit it, I like him in TM. The conflict between Bosco and Patrick is deliciously well done, and his softer side comes over well when he relates to Tunney. I think Patrick is very close to the truth when he speculates on what happened between the two of them in the past.
 
Blueberry or cranberry? Put in your orders now.
 
Shoshie

--- On Fri, 11/6/09, Lesley Tillier <celestine@...> wrote:

From: Lesley Tillier <celestine@...>
Subject: Re: [Simonbaker] Black Gold & Red Blood-----Loved Simon
To: simonbaker@yahoogroups.com
Date: Friday, November 6, 2009, 7:34 PM

 
I enjoyed the episode, but T.M. can be very unrealistic at times, for sure. Where are the "scene of crime officers" on this series?

Detectives like these don't do that kind of work, there are specially trained officers to do that, usually wearing suits similar to hazmat, but without the head covering.

Of course, we all know the state of California is broke, so maybe their cops do have to double up on assignments. <g>

Looking forward to next week's episode, when Jane and Bosco have to work together, whether they want to or not.

Lesley

From: tiacelaya
Sent: Friday, November 6, 2009 7:54 PM
To: simonbaker@yahoogro ups.com
Subject: [Simonbaker] Black Gold Red Blood-----Loved Simon

 
The writers let Jane get away with a lot, but Heller let the flood waters out in this episode, which made for a very unrealistic one. But also for a very Entertaining and Hilarious one and of course that's why we watch this program, not for a police realistic procedure.
Loved the whole prison scenes. Jane can't fight his way out of a wet paper bag, but he can sure charm and talk his way out of almost any situation (Bosco being one exception) Before lights out Jane had gotten to know his cell mate so well he even had the hand shake down. :-D
Now Bosco might have let him off the hook, but would Minelli have? When Jane was first arrested he would do nothing to stop Jane from going to Jail since he had crossed the line. Also since Jane was re-arrested I'm sure he had to go back to the county jail. I'm sure he would have gotten a different reception from the inmates, most likely cheering him because of his escape, but how would the guards react. Not so kindly, wouldn't have been surprised to see some bruises on his pretty face. Glad they didn't go there.
The inmate that Jane was hypnotizing was the one that posted on IMDB, who said about Simon "14th hour of a long day on a Friday night before the weekend, and he STILL, was the nicest guy, having a good time working, very, VERY rare, among series regulars"
You could tell that Simon had a fun time working on this episode. And good for him on the news that TNT has picked up the show to air in syndication. He'll be making more money even after the program ends, which I hope is not anytime soon.
 
Tia


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