This is another letter I received, thought I should share with group,
and reinstate this member, hopefully more people will comment, I just
felt violated, maybe it was not intentional to hurt me, but being
obsessed with Nisha would mean ALWAYS THINKING OF HER, ALWAYS
WATCHING THE SAME MOVIE WITH HER IN IT, I don't do that. I just
consider her Creative, a credit to us all, and yes Gorgeous, there is
nothing wrong with that. Sorry if you are offended, that is not my
intention. Peace.
"Thats cool that you canceled me on the yahoo group. But the only
reason you did that is because you didnt want me to say anything else
on there to you. Talking about me getting a life.. I have a great
life. Believe or not I KNOW that people come to that group and
leave b.c of some of the things you say. From the outside looking
in it indeed sounds like you are obsessed. I could care less what
your friends say, of course they are going to be on your side they
are your FRIENDS. But to someone that doesnt know you, you sound a
little bit scarey. And just to let you know the reason I went to
look at your group is because a friend of mine told me to look at it
b.c it was freaky. As far as hurting your feelings that wasnt my
intention. For instance the picture you have of yourself holding a
picture of Nisha. Thats kinda freaky. The way you were talking
about her when you met her. It was indeed a little weird. I could
go on and on and point out the things that set off in my head that
you are obsessed. Now I never meant that you would harm Nisha. But
yes I think you are a little bit overly obssessed. You practicly bow
down to her. Nothing is wrong with liking people but there are
people that take it to the extreme. I think that you are one of
them. I think that you are just an unhappy person and I am sorry
that you are. This is what gets you through your day and thats
okay. But there is still a LINE. Let your friends read this, I dont
care. I am not out to hurt you. Just stating the obvious. A good
friend of mine was stalked and Killed and I actually got a chance to
read some of the guys stuff in letters and journals and some of the
things you said remind me of that. Once again I am NOT saying that
you would harm her. But I do think you should tone it down and not
make it so obvious. Dont worry I am not going to post in your little
group again. Although it wouldnt be hard to do. Even though you
have a confirmation to join. If I have something to say I will say
it. You are obsessed even if you dont want to acknowlage it. And
your little email didnt work ; )
Later"