No, this shouldn't be ugly. Of course, it should never have been ugly
to begin with. I was under the impression that this was a group meant
to discuss a specific actor, not to make rude comments about his and
other people's significant others, even if in jest, even if meant
to "cheer someone up".

Since this is the first time I'd responded to anything in this group,
since I've only been a member for less than a week, I suppose I
wasn't to know that it could be such a "fun" place. Now I'm not going
to bother to find out what fun it is, since I'm quitting. Nice way to
treat brand new members.

Thanks for the welcome, and oh yeah, I'm even older than you.
Kasey